Haha i've decided we should celebrate this new lunar year with a reflection on life so i got this off the Daily Enlightenment weekly digest..
The willow is green; flowers are red.
The flower is not red, nor is the willow green.
- Zen Sayings
hehe tis true indeed ^-^
HAPPY CNY ALL!
Entry @ 1:52 AM;
Monday, February 19, 2007
flirtnoun1.
a seductive person who uses his or her sex appeal to exploit others [syn:
coquette]
2.
playful behavior intended to arouse sexual interest
verb
1.
talk or behave amorously, without serious intentions; "The guys always try to chat up the new secretaries"; "My husband never flirts with other women" [syn:
chat up]
2.
behave carelessly or indifferently; "Play about with a young girl's affection" [syn:
dally]
haha i once accused a friend of being a flirt. n he asked what that meant exactly. i thought for awhile and decided i wasn't exactly sure either so here's the meaning as seen from
www.dictionary.com , my best online friend...
hehe k maybe this is just me, but according to noun2 a flirt has the 'intention' of arousing sexual interest so does that mean that if a flirt has no intention of doing so he/she is not a flirt?but then how would other people know what intentions a person has if they remain in a person's head?will that then lead to false accusations based on assumptions that someone is a flirt when he/she has no intentions of doing so?tis confusing indeed.
therefore i have come to the conclusion that it doesn't matter how you define a flirt.. i mean a guy or girl could sincerely be concerned about other people or being nice and not be flirting. people's actions can just be grossly misinterpreted sometimes. besides, the words flirt has mixed connotations. i mean not necessarily a good thing, but not exactly a bad thing either. so 1 man's meat can truly poison and vice versa.
hehe so friend, i take back the comment since i wasn't privy to your intentions i guess i cant pass a judgement on whether you were being a flirt or not ^-^
haha c'est la vie
Entry @ 11:58 PM;
Saturday, February 10, 2007